Seven spiritual states
Dualities / Asleep, Polarities / I love myself, Mutuality / I am love, Beingness / Enlightened, Absolute / Realised, Nothingness / Sage, Peace / Liberated / No-mind
Advaita-Teachings and perception-based spiritual practice
I am and you are, no ‘thingness’ and no judgement. We mutually notice each others awareness.
So mutuality, though lacking in ‘thingness’, is still a subject – object relationship. The effect of experiencing mutuality is to expand ‘I love myself’ to cover the beings which you are mutual with. When you do this with a lot of beings (and not just human beings), you effectively extend loving to all beings: I am love.